christian oey

We all want to be successful, prosperous, happy. These are great and legitimate goals and we aspire to be all of them. But because we are all individuals, we measure success, prosperity, and happiness using different measuring sticks. That’s why it’s important that you are specific, especially now that a New Year is around the [...]

A little bird had his wing over his eyes & he was crying. The owl said to the bird,  ”You’re crying.” “Yes”, said the little bird. He pulled his wing away from his eye. “Oh, I see”, said the owl. “You’re crying because the big bird pecked out your eye.” “No, I’m not crying because [...]

As humans we get disappointed a lot. Mainly because we want to be happy. A lot of the time, we get disappointed & get upset because we are offended, because someone made us unhappy. Why do we do that? I say it’s time to stop. I say happiness is a decision. I say everyone has [...]

It’s important..no, it’s vital that we surround ourselves with people who cause us to rise higher, not people who are complainers, not people who knock you down. I know some people who I might share my predicament with, and their comeback to me is: a) A Competing Stance – “my problem is bigger than yours” [...]

The best thing you can do for yourself when everything is going wrong for you, is to be a blessing to someone else in trouble. Why? 1. It will take your mind off of your own problem, allowing you space to review your options & solutions 2. Helping someone else will make you feel A [...]

Yesterday I called you a brain. Today, I want to know if you’re a country song. I’ve heard it said that if you play a country western song backwards, you’ll hear that he gets the girl back, the dog back, the house back, the job back, the truck back, and has lots of money. Tell [...]

A failure is never a failure —> unless you choose not to learn from it. We all make mistakes, almost daily, not just in the big stuff, saying the wrong thing to someone, acting the wrong way, making the wrong decisions, buying something we didn’t really need, eating something we shouldn’t have, the list goes [...]

Dear Challenge (aka trials, aka circumstances, aka testing times, aka problems, aka situations), I thought I would take this opportunity to write to you to say THANK YOU. First and foremost, thank you for making me stronger. Also, thank you – because of you I am now wiser and tougher. If it wasn’t for you, [...]

With all the many Harry Potter books she has written, which are all about magic potions and spells, I love what JK Rowling says, “We do not need magic to transform our world. We carry all the power we need INSIDE ourselves already.” Yep. I repeat —> YOU. CAN. DO. THIS. You are a power [...]

In reality, I believe that winning is not just a result, winning is a process, and it begins with an ATTITUDE that circumstances cannot hold back. If you are facing something today, get some perspective, adjust your attitude, stop whining & start WINNING. YOU. CAN. DO. THIS.  –>  I know  you can.