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Don’t be too hard on yourself. Every little step you take FORWARD is a small goal achieved. Like I’ve said before, you may not be where you want to be, but you are a long way off from where you started. Celebrate ANY progress. Don’t wait to get perfect. You my friend, are a champion. [...]

Chief Genius Albert Einstein said, “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” Why Albert, why? Because people will let you down; sometimes because they just do, & other times because we have high expectations of people, including friends & family. As for “things”, well…the [...]

If you are still having trouble working out your goals or just can’t be bothered because you think it’s too overwhelming, here’s an idea. It’s something I read by speaker & author Michael Hyatt. You can read his blog here. “If you could fast forward to the end of 2012, how will your life be [...]

Despite all of the factors that affect our lives—like the kind of parents we have, the schools we attended, the part of the country we grew up in—none has as much potential power for affecting our futures as our ability to dream. Dreams are a projection of the kind of life you want to lead. [...]

I’m  not a big exerciser other than walking 50mins most mornings with my wife, and another 30mins in the evening in the warmer months. I try to cycle when I can, but lately that has been a non-event. But there is another form of exercise I read about recently which I would like to promote. It’s [...]

A Harvard study found that the more long-term your thinking is, the more successful you will be in life. And the more short-term your thinking is, the less successful you will be. Unsuccessful people tend to only think about the here and now, what feels good now, what’s nice to have now. They don’t think [...]

Motivator Tony Robbins says, “You see, in life, lots of people know what to do, but few people actually do what they know..” We know to get out of debt, yet we’ll use the credit card or get a loan yet again. We know we shouldn’t eat that double choc ice cream, yet we tell [...]

I have a mate who loves to participate in charity cycling events. It’s the races that go for days & days. Craig has a day job, but he just has a passion for cycling for a cause. In preparation, he would train. He would go some crazy hours on the bike each day to build [...]

Thomas Edison invented the light bulb. By accident? No. Edison had 1,093 patents during his lifetime. Edison was one focused dude when it came to inventions. He would attempt to purposely put his brain into a state of where theta brain waves would work for him. Theta Brain Waves. What are “theta brain waves”? These [...]

I love how my backyard is always clean. I love how my swimming pool is always clean. I love how my grass is always green and neat. Cause: I sweep my backyard and clean my pool each morning. I water the lawn most nights. I mow the lawn weekly. To get where you want to [...]