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A man went to see a fortune teller to hear what she had to say about his future. She looked into her crystal ball and said, “You will be poor and unhappy until you are 45 years old.” Puzzled but hopeful, the man asked, “Then what will happen?” “….Then you will get used it.” This [...]

“What’s the worse that can happen?” When facing a situation, a challenge, a problem, we think that that’s a positive-minded stance. I don’t think it is. Try this one in it’s place: “What’s the best thing can happen?” Now that stance gives you a totally different perspective and expectation, right? Works all the time.   [...]

Yes, I know that’s not a word. But it should be. I’m a pretty disciplined and organised type of guy overall; regimented, likes to work from lists and diaries, plans ahead, annoyingly loves schedules and routines. But there is a side of me that makes me a rebel. Although I operate as described above, I [...]

Make a decision to: Keep pressing forward. Keep believing. Keep stretching. Until you see your dream fulfilled.    

Life is just full of seasons. Good ones, bad ones, fruitful ones, baron ones, hurting ones, happy ones…it comes and goes, goes and comes no matter what. It’s just doing LIFE. No matter what season you are in today, crush it right there! In other words, don’t be afraid of it, face it, attack it, [...]

This is what I have to do.. a lot: “When inspiration does not come to me –> I go halfway to meet it.” – Sigmund Freud Any achievement, success, or goal won’t just come to you. Even winning the lotto requires you to get off the lounge, go out and buy a lottery ticket first…and [...]

When Christopher Reeve (the actor that was best known for playing the role of Superman) fell off his horse in 1995 and became a quadriplegic, his wife, Dana (Reeve’s real life Lois Lane) wrote him a letter. A shot of this letter is below.     We all have challenges in life, big small, serious, [...]

In light of the recent Super Storm that descended upon and ravaged New York, what I wanted to say today was….no matter how severe your own personal storm might be right now –> it cannot…and will not…last forever. Your best days are closer than you think; a new season is coming.    

“I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection.”  - Thomas Paine Smile. Be strong. Be brave. That’s all.    

“The man who can drive himself further once the effort gets painful —> is the man WHO WILL WIN.” – Roger Bannister Don’t stop just because it’s painful; there is a purpose to your pain, and if you give up now you will miss it. Keep. pushing. through. You’re almost there…