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Here’s a couple of nuggets that sums it up nicely: “Don’t let other people’s negativity crush your confidence or squander your progress. Shut the negative voices out!” – Brian Houston “You need people in your life who can take you beyond your limitations.” –  A R Bernard Choose the right people to hang out with [...]

Winston Churchill once said, “History is written by the victors.” You write history each time you overcome, succeed, & achieve. It may not be some big history-deal like making the first car, or inventing Google or Facebook, or coming up with the iPhone/iPod. But each time you win, you write your own personal history in [...]

If you are still having trouble working out your goals or just can’t be bothered because you think it’s too overwhelming, here’s an idea. It’s something I read by speaker & author Michael Hyatt. You can read his blog here. “If you could fast forward to the end of 2012, how will your life be [...]

There is no escaping the natural law: you sow what you reap. When we hear or see this “saying”, we automatically think of it as a punishment of some kind. But in reality, it works in all parts of life, even in the good. Below is an excerpt from a blog post I’ve “borrowed” (yes, [...]

Resolve to let go of minor irritations quicker….’coz the more you water them, the more they grow. It’s like with anything, the more you feed it the more it expands into something bigger than it is. It’s not worth it. Do yourself a favour, win by letting go.

Life, in general, has no limitations, except for the ones we make & place on our life. You see, the goal you set becomes your ceiling, your limitation. For example, if my goal is to double my income this  year, then that’s the limit I have set on my earnings. If my goal is to [...]

In the last couple of posts, I’ve been talking about enjoying life & smelling the roses, & how that is all part of the journey to achieving your goals. I recently read an interesting article written by Bronnie Ware, a palliative care worker who has worked with a countless number of patients who are sadly [...]

General Robinson Risner was a prisoner of war in North Vietnam for more than seven years. He was in solitary confinement for five of those years. He suffered from cold, heat, malnutrition, & lack of fresh air. He was totally deprived of any human comfort. He jogged in his cell by the hour. When he [...]

At the beginning of a year, & littered throughout the year, I talk a lot about having goals. Goals are vital. I have also read blogs where it is said that we shouldn’t have goals & enjoy every moment of life as it comes as there is magic in the moments. I agree with this [...]

A couple of weeks ago I posted a blog post where I said that I didn’t believe in “luck” & gave you the dictionary definition of luck. Maybe you want to go back & read the post I’m talking about here. Allow me to add to that. Disclaimer: I still don’t believe in luck or [...]