christian oey

Yesterday I called you a brain. Today, I want to know if you’re a country song. I’ve heard it said that if you play a country western song backwards, you’ll hear that he gets the girl back, the dog back, the house back, the job back, the truck back, and has lots of money. Tell [...]

As humans we automatically think that we are a body with a mind. It’s not so. We are a mind with a body. This is why we need to fill our thoughts with the right stuff. I’m not talking about positive thinking. I’m talking about reading stuff that will add value to your life and [...]

No hope  ->  no action. Hope for the future gives power for the present…because if you have no hope, you will give up and say “what’s the point”. Hope is vital. Hope is necessary. Hope will always tell you to keep going.

A failure is never a failure —> unless you choose not to learn from it. We all make mistakes, almost daily, not just in the big stuff, saying the wrong thing to someone, acting the wrong way, making the wrong decisions, buying something we didn’t really need, eating something we shouldn’t have, the list goes [...]

Dear Challenge (aka trials, aka circumstances, aka testing times, aka problems, aka situations), I thought I would take this opportunity to write to you to say THANK YOU. First and foremost, thank you for making me stronger. Also, thank you – because of you I am now wiser and tougher. If it wasn’t for you, [...]

“Effort only fully releases its reward after a person refuses to quit.” ~ Napoleon Hill Sadly, most of us quit right before our breakthrough. We didn’t know that if we just held on one more day, one more month, one more hour… When you are under great pressure, it’s a good indication that this miracle, [...]

With all the many Harry Potter books she has written, which are all about magic potions and spells, I love what JK Rowling says, “We do not need magic to transform our world. We carry all the power we need INSIDE ourselves already.” Yep. I repeat —> YOU. CAN. DO. THIS. You are a power [...]

In reality, I believe that winning is not just a result, winning is a process, and it begins with an ATTITUDE that circumstances cannot hold back. If you are facing something today, get some perspective, adjust your attitude, stop whining & start WINNING. YOU. CAN. DO. THIS.  –>  I know  you can.

Stefani was a young & naturally talented singer-songwriter, performing to small crowds in small New York bars. It was the mid 2000′s – or mid “naughties” as it is now widely known. Like in most bars & clubs, it’s a tough gig trying to capture the attention of your audience. There’s drinking, talking, laughing, & [...]

I’ve encountered a lot of new challenges in my life recently, professionally and personally. It seems like no matter what I do, stuff just isn’t going right. I’m sure you know what I mean. But I keep trying. I have learnt that when I am knocked down seven times, I get up an eighth time. [...]